It is realized that some people are stronger than others and some are appointed as vessels from God to help those they come in contact with. If a person seeks help from a “healer” they must be open to prayer and receive. Opening the eyes to what is being shown. Self control is a strength. Calmness is a mastery. A person must strive to get to a point where your mood doesn’t shift based on insignificant actions of someone else. Don’t allow others to control the direction of your life. Don’t allow your emotions to over power your intelligence. Consistency is the key to the balance of life. Create simplicity and serenity as much as possible. Find quiet time and prayer, connecting with the Creator every day.